Should I Let My Boyfriend Have Dinner With His Ex?
Dear Finding Hope, I met Chad about six months ago through a friend and we have been dating every since. It has been going really great. I don't know too much about his past, but I do know he dated a girl before me for about two years. She broke up with him but didn't really give a reason except she lives about two hours away from our town and she didn't like the distance and neither wanted to move. That's all I know. Anyway, last night he told me that she called and was going to be in town this weekend and wanted to meet him for dinner. He asked if I would mind. Well, yes, actually I do. But I don't want to look jealous or clingy. I don't know what her deal is and I'm hurt that he wants to go. What should I do? Signed, I Said He Could Go, But Not Happy Dear Not Happy That is a tough one for sure. It can be very frustrating not knowing what her goal is, especially since they dated for two years and you are not truly clear on what went d